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FAML 220 Course Journal W10

This week in parenting we talked about the influence pyramid and how we can respect other's agency while also influencing them to make good choices. It's really important that we teach our children to respect each other's agency. I want to be parenting after the manner of our Heavenly Father. I want to use natural consequences and controlled circumstances to allow my children to make good choices and bad choices. Then they can learn from what they are experiencing the same way that we learn here on earth. 

The Anatomy of Peace is all about how we can only change ourselves first and then make way for a new and more complete relationship with those we love. It doesn't allow for people to dominate each other or manipulate each other into certain actions. I think that the world could use a good read-through of this book. They need to stop objectifying each other and start doing what they feel is right towards each other. 

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