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FAML 220 Course Journal W02

This week in parenting class we learned about the framework for gospel learning. I had heard this concept back when I was a newlywed at LDSBC, but I hadn't realized the application could be used for any question or problem that we were trying to solve. I think as we approach our parenting dilemmas, of which there are many, from a framework point of view we will find the answers to questions that maybe even doctors and therapists can't solve. The answers may only work for us, but they will be grounded in doctrine as we come to understand what the doctrine means.

I am using this concept in all of my classes this semester. I want to see marriage, family, parenting, and my life in general through the lens of the gospel. I think that as I study more about what good parenting is and I learn how our Father would parent us then I can begin to take control of situations that I usually struggle with. My children are the greatest part of my life and they deserve to see the reflection of the gospel through my eyes.

I think I want to learn how to control my reactions so that I can be a parent that acts with intention and not just on the spur of the moment. Learning the doctrine will help me to become more like our Heavenly Father and it won't be as difficult to stop the natural man reactions and direct my children with patience and long-suffering like our Father.

I have a goal to begin to study the scriptures daily as a family and as individuals. There is no better way to get closer to Heavenly Father and have the Holy Ghost to be with us than to be reading His words.

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